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"It’s Not You, It’s Me" is Usually a Lie

Coffee and Cleavage@coffee-and-cleavage · video 255 of 281
Published11 May 20266mo ago
Length17:34
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  1. Published on OFTV11 May 2026, 16:42
  2. Picked up by OF Candy14 Nov 2026, 03:51
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Everyone’s heard it. Most people have said it. “It’s not you, it’s me.” But is it actually true, or just the easiest way out? In this episode, we break down what people really mean when they say it, why it’s used so often in dating, and whether it’s honesty or just avoiding the truth. If you’ve ever been on either side of it, this one hits.

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